G+G=3.
"Everything will be okay in the end. If it isn't okay, it isn't the end."
Monday, July 23, 2012
On Time
Friday, October 28, 2011
On Defeat
18 months. That is how long we've been doing this, tomorrow. I've read that I would know when I couldn't take it anymore. And up until a couple days ago I couldn't imagine getting to that point, giving up. It felt selfish, short-sighted etc....
I don't know what changed. Nothing monumental. I'm tired of feeling like a failure. I'm tired of being disappointed, of feeling estranged from everyone because they don't understand what we're going through. I'm tired of not having money to pay bills because I spent it all on treatment. I'm tired of the emotional rollercoaster.
Two more cycles or the end of the year, whichever comes first and then I'm done. At least till we can afford IVF or to adopt.
I hate feeling like a quitter.
Until next time,
G
Wednesday, October 19, 2011
On Birthdays
I didn't marry the guy who has an elaborate plan or surprise for a birthday. I did marry the guy who, upon realizing that his wife is slightly miffed because he worked late on her special day, hastily attempts to bake his first cake ever.
He didn't marry the prettiest girl he's ever dated, but he did marry one smart enough to know that next year she will just tell him that she wants to go out to sushi. And that there is no sense in telling him the cake kinda tasted like cornbread.
Tuesday, October 4, 2011
Friday, September 23, 2011
On Love and Migraines
My husband is amazing. He didn't give me a shiny rock when he asked me to be his wife, he has bought me flowers maybe twice in the last six years. But when I have a pounding headache that seems dangerously close to migraine territory and I'm crying because I can't take my medication during the two week wait, he lies quietly with me and draws circles on my back. To feel so loved at your lowest moments, who could ask for anything more?
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
On Fall, Follicles and other F words.
So last Tuesday was my follicle check ultrasound, and it was a disappointment. One ovary didn't respond at all to the 150 mg of Clomid- and the other's "lead" follicle was just .9 mm. You need 1.6 minimum to trigger. I was admittedly skeptical on the timing of the ultrasound, CD 13, since the (only freaking) two times I've confirmed ovulation it was on CD18. After some pleading I convinced my doctor to check again on Thursday morning, but I could tell as I left that she was pretty convinced it would prove to be a waste of time.